Tribute Wall
In Memory of
Stephen Sibalis
1951 - 2019
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Allie M. lit a candle
Tuesday, September 29, 2020
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My deepest condolences to his family.
He was the best psychiatrist I ever had. I had moved to Ottawa, and last saw him in 2019, but he'd been my psychiatrist for 5 years. My daughter and I miss him dearly. He's the reason I finally got my ADHD diagnosis and he was always such a wonderful person to talk to.
The world has lost a wonderful doctor, he will be remembered fondly and I doubt I'll find another psychiatrist who's half the doctor that he was. (Not too mention he had a wonderful sense of humour)
Rest in Peace.
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Julian posted a condolence
Thursday, September 10, 2020
My deepest condolence to the family and friends of Dr. Sibalis.
My life is changed completely after treatment from Dr. Sibalis. I really appreciate his help all these years and will always remember him.
R.I.P
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V P posted a condolence
Thursday, May 14, 2020
My deepest condolences to Dr. Sibalis' family, he helped me more than he could ever know and I hope that he rests in peace.
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Dejan posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 28, 2020
My deepest condolences to the family, friends, and patients of Dr. Sibalis. He was the best doctor I've ever had. I only just found out about his passing and I'm sad he's no longer with us. I didn't know much about him as our time together was completely focused on my treatment and what could be better. I know he was a tireless doctor who put his patients first in every way. He knew when to be compassionate and when to call me out. One time he told me to "man up" and it helped me more than 10 sessions with
some counselors. Though he was a blank slate during sessions, I still sensed his warmth toward me, and that I was safe to tell him everything without fear of consequence. I would've loved to catch a jazz concert together, but Dr. Sibalis would never compromise his professionalism and that is what separated him from other doctors. I never had the chance to ask him if he recorded his voicemail every morning or if it was an automated system. It wouldn't surprise me to learn he did it manually. Rest in peace, doctor.
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Sofie lit a candle
Thursday, April 2, 2020
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My deepest condolences to the Sibalis family.He was the best psychiatrist, I've ever had. Not many people understand ADHD, but he did perfectly well. He understood me and took care of me. I'm deeply Grateful for his help.
Dr.Sibalis, I miss you and regret that I didn't get a chance to speak with you ever since I saw you for the last time back in Sept.
Thank You Dr.Sibalis for your kindness and understanding.
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Vince posted a condolence
Thursday, March 26, 2020
I would like to offer my heartfelt condolences to the Sibalis family.
I was shocked and saddened to learn of Dr. Sibalis’ passing. I was a patient of his for over 10 years and I really appreciate the care and support he gave me. I hope the knowledge that he helped so many people and was appreciated by his patients offers you some comfort.
Dr. Sibalis was very knowledgeable and compassionate. He
helped me a lot, particularly during a difficult time when my new manager was trying to rescind the workplace accommodation Dr. Sibalis had helped me obtain years earlier. He pushed back and made me feel protected when I was at my most vulnerable.
Dr. Sibalis did not share a lot of personal information with me so I only knew that he had grown up in Montreal, that he liked to travel and that he worked very hard. We had some good discussions about the state of the world and I appreciated his sense of humour. I am happy to now learn that besides his work, he led a very full life, had a loving family and was a Habs fan!
Dr. Sibalis’ passing is a huge loss and I miss him greatly.
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Emily posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 25, 2020
I'm so sad to hear about Dr. Sibalis passing. I was a patient of his but at times felt like we were friends. He had a hard exterior at first but that was quickly broken down when we bonded over places that he had traveled and places he was going. He was a big influence on my travel plans and l could tell how much he loved to travel with his wife. He was the reason I traveled to Japan last year and it was an unforgettable trip. My deepest condolences go out to his wife and children. He was such a wonderful, kind, calm and inquisitive person. I will never forgot the impact he had on my life <3
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Patient lit a candle
Friday, January 31, 2020
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I probably wouldn't have made it to where I am today without Dr. Sibalis and his willingness to explore treatment options without the same reticence of most other practitioners in his field. It's going to be an odd feeling to not meet him at 6 in the morning at his office. My thoughts and condolences go out to his friends and family.
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Ari posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 29, 2020
I am a patient of Dr. Sibalis who, like others here, only just found out about his passing. And like others who shared here, I too benefited tremendously from his care. After three previous specialists, I "discovered" Dr. Sibalis through my research/digging and asked my GP to refer me. I am grateful that he took me on as a patient. Those of us with ADHD and its various associated challenges know how hard it is to find a healthcare professional with the necessary skill, knowledge and grit to help us achieve the best functionality and stability we are desperate for.
I found in the Doctor a unique combination of patience, care, clinical experience and humility. He was not afraid to acknowledge the great limitations of standard clinical guidelines in this area. He was frank in his opinions, but was willing to explore and test many different routes with me, as long as they were safe.
I wish strength and consolation for his family in their own time.
Ari
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Patricia Morton posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 21, 2020
I just found out about Dr. Stephen Sibalis' passing and would like to pass on my condolences to his family. I've been his patient for over 10 years when he diagnosed me, at 59, with ADHD. His kindness and expertise helped me get on with my life and I can't believe I won't see him again. He was a wonderful, thoughtful and understanding man and physician
Paddy Morton
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Brendan lit a candle
Tuesday, January 14, 2020
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Brendan Fraser
I have known Dr. Sibalis for over 10 years. I just received a letter that he passed away in November. I am in utter shock and saddened. I really miss seeing him. My condolences to the Sibalis family.
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Peter P lit a candle
Tuesday, January 14, 2020
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I became a patient of Stephen Sibalis about nine years ago. I never felt like a patient. Stephen was always patient and the lead collaborator in a joint mission. I am deeply saddened by his passing. My deepest condolonces to his family.
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William L. Mitchell posted a condolence
Monday, January 13, 2020
I became an ADHD patient of Dr. Sibalis at the age of 58. Over the past 12 years he has been instrumental in changing my life for the better, so much so that I will never forget him. Thank you, Dr. Sibalis.
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Victoria Row posted a condolence
Sunday, January 12, 2020
So sorry to hear of Steven's passing and your loss. I knew Steven when he lived in St.Lambert, Montreal and Guelph. He was a special guy and will be missed.
Victoria Row
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Matt posted a condolence
Friday, December 27, 2019
My deepest condolences, to Dr Sibalis’s family. I have been a patient with Dr Sibalis for many years. He helped me battle through years of persistent recurring depression. I continuously admired him for the challenges he faced daily with the complexity of his career choice, and how he was able be consistently professional and yet personable and humble. I am forever grateful that I was able to have him in my corner to help me through some of the most difficult times in my life. He will be missed.
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Noah Lister-Stevens lit a candle
Tuesday, December 17, 2019
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My deepest condolences to all of Dr. Sibalis' family and friends. I was a patient of his for 5 years, and I can never thank him enough for his help in managing my issues. Stephen was always sharp, pleasant and learned, and his work with me helped me get my school, work and personal life all on better paths than I could've ever done by myself. The medical world is lesser without him, and so is the world as a whole.
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TCM lit a candle
Monday, December 16, 2019
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I too would like to share my condolences with Dr. Sibalis family. I "cold called" him over 8 years ago as my GP did not have connections with psychiatrists. He agreed to "take me on" and asked that my GP send a referral. I have later learned of Stephen's stature in the medical community and was surprised that he accepted me as a patient. He changed my life for the better and we became friendly over the years including him sharing personal information about his family. I am forever in his debt. I have again begun the process of finding another psychiatrist and have offered my GP a the Albany Clinic two names who are both located at TEGH/Michael Garron. TCM
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Larry Chad posted a condolence
Monday, December 16, 2019
To Stephen's wife and children
So sorry to hear of the loss of Stephen
He was a highly valued member of the Department of Psychiatry Michael Garron Hospital
His wit, intelligence, expertise, and dedication will be sorely missed
Larry Chad,
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Luc posted a condolence
Sunday, December 15, 2019
Dr. Sibalis gave me hope when I became a patient of his. He was always so eager to help me succeed; never giving up on my treatment, no matter how many challenges I faced. Although always professional, I loved whenever he cracked a subtle (and very smart) joke. Will truly miss this gentleman. Hope I can make him proud and reach the potential that he always saw in me. Many well wishes to his family and friends.
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K posted a condolence
Monday, December 9, 2019
My condolences to family and friends of Dr. Sibalis. I was a patient that had an appointment today and just learned of his passing. His care and compassion as a physician changed my life night and day for the better. It was an honour to be treated by such a highly qualified expert in ADHD, and a relief to find a specialist that took it upon himself to take care of so many of us that were affected so negatively by the disorder. Dr. Sibalis was a light in so many people's lives. Thank-you Dr. S.
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Andrew S posted a condolence
Monday, December 9, 2019
Condolences to the family of Dr. Sibalis. He has helped so many people in need of support. His compassion and understanding will be missed by all those who he helped in his lifetime.
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Michael lit a candle
Monday, December 9, 2019
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Charlie posted a condolence
Sunday, December 8, 2019
Dr Sabalis was more than a Doctor - he was a true friend .I am truly going to miss him.This is a very sad day for me.Talk about making an adjustment - this will be a big one for me .God bless him, his family and everyone who was his friend .Charlie
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John posted a condolence
Thursday, December 5, 2019
We found out today of the passing away of this great man. To read of the accomplishments and passions of this wonderful man come as no surprise. He demonstrated a steadfast belief that you deal with what has been handed to you the very best you can and move forward. His actions touched the 4 members of my family directly. He helped each of us with our issues and offered only supportive advice never judgement. Many of our appointments ran late if we asked about his travels past or future. A man who gave hope to school aged children with advice on tutors and study habits and their parents as well. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family at this time. Please know that this private and professional man could not hide his smile when he spoke of his family. He told me to smile and cherish those closest and to enjoy each and every day to the fullest. We are so very sorry for this loss you have suffered.
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Jon A. posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 3, 2019
I would like to pay my respects to Dr. Sibalis. He helped me as a patient for several years. He was always kind and understanding and changed my life for the better.
My sincere condolences to his family.
Jon
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William L posted a condolence
Monday, December 2, 2019
Dr. Sibalis really helped me understand the issues I was dealing with and helped me work through a lot of issues. He was a kind man who shared insightful personal anecdotes and experiences through are sessions and helped me understand what was normal. Dr Sibalis really believed in me and was a big part of helping me get my life and academic career back on track after a tumultuous year and gave me hope that I could reach my potential one day.
My heartfelt condolences go out to Dr Sibalis' wife, children, family and friends.
Dr Sibalis was an fantastic physician and even greater of a person.
Thank you for everything,
William
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Annette posted a condolence
Monday, December 2, 2019
I worked with Dr.Sibalis, at MGH, and am surprised to hear of his passing. My deepest condolences to his family,friends, and colleagues. Your gentleness will be missed.
Annette
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Workman posted a condolence
Thursday, November 28, 2019
Dr. Sibalis gave hope to many of his patience and helped them regain their lives. Our heartfelt condolences go out to the family, we will never forget his kindness.
The Workman family.
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Andre posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 26, 2019
I met Dr. Steve when we were both 14 years old, introduced by our great mutual friend Jerome. Steve and I were close from that point on until our mid-to-late-20’s and remained the kind of friends who’ve shared the experience of growing up - we might not see each other for years but when we got together we would pick up where we left off. Together we went through many adventures and mis-adventures in those formative years. Steve was a romantic - a very intelligent person who felt things deeply and loved music, film and literature. He introduced me to “Sunshine of Your Love” by Cream and later on to Miles Davis’s ”Snows of Kilimanjaro” on the record player in his bedroom. While at McGill we enjoyed many incredible blues and jazz performances at the Esquire Show Bar on Stanley Street - Muddy Waters, John Lee Hooker, Rahsaan Roland Kirk and Ornette Coleman. We read Henry Miller, Jack Kerouac and Charles Bukowski and would quote to each other from their novels. For a while we worked out together - Steve hated running but loved lifting weights. We saw Arnold Schwarzenegger’s first film - a quasi-doc called “Pumping Iron”. He loved road trips - like Kerouac he did not drive but was exhilarated by being “On the Road”. We drove to La Malbaie to see Patsy, to Virginia on a holiday with Ruth and to Ottawa to see Muddy Waters. Once we drove to New Brunswick. Steve sported very long hair in those days. While walking down the street in Fredericton a local called him girlie and later on when we drove home via the States the border guard searched my car for drugs asking Steve if there was “anything in your purse”. To those guys he was a hippie. I visited Steve everywhere he lived, Guelph and Boston, and saw those places through his eyes and when he moved to Hamilton for med school I was recruited to rent a truck and to drive him and his stuff there. Steve had a great sense of humour - self-deprecating at times but also observant of the funny little things in life. He would wonder why the French-speaking hockey announcer on Radio-Canada pronounced “Bobby Orr” as “Bobby Hore” and “Henri Richard” as “Aunri Richard”. I recall all these moments with joy. They were from a time in our lives when we were free, mostly innocent and the world was unfolding its wonders before us. I miss those feelings and I will miss Steve. Andre
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Michael McNally posted a condolence
Monday, November 25, 2019
Our weekends at Michael Garron Hospital won't be the same without Dr. Sibalis. He was a kind man and a respected physician who helped hundreds of patients in crisis during the many years I worked with him. My heartfelt condolences to Anne and his children.
Michael McNally, Toronto
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ssanghera@utschools.ca posted a condolence
Monday, November 25, 2019
I am so very sorry for your loss, Eilish. Please know that I am thinking of you. Ms. Sanghera
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Pat Salloum posted a condolence
Sunday, November 24, 2019
I was so very sorry to hear the sad news. Stephen was a long time friend of my older brother and I remember him with fondness.
Pat Salloum, Toronto
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Janet Rodriguez posted a condolence
Sunday, November 24, 2019
Dr Sibalis guided both my son and I through 15 years of trials and tribulations; without his support we would have been lost. I cannot imagine the loss experienced by his family; we send them our most heartfelt condolences. He was a wonderful doctor, a wonderful person. We thank you, Dr. Sibalis.
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Doug Salloum posted a condolence
Sunday, November 24, 2019
I knew Steve for 58 years, since Grade 6. He was one of my best friends in elementary and high school.
I used to ride my bike over to his house and we would hang out in his room, complaining about the state of the world, or else in his basement, with his animals. He had at one time a large iguana. There were several of Steve’s friends with him one day when the iguana escaped. We pursued it around the basement until one of us, Graham Fletcher, I think, with hockey gloves on his hands, picked the creature up and put it back in its cage.
Steve was always the smartest in our school and the hardest working and the most responsible. I am not surprised by his success as a psychiatrist. He worked for and earned the respect of his professional peers. He was also a pillar of support for his patients and they loved him in return. That does not surprise me either. He was always gentle and sweet and caring of others.
After high school we saw each other less and less. In university (we both started at McGill) he again applied himself to his studies more than I did. We would still get together, at first maybe once a week, then once a month. After universities (Steve had degrees from three universities) every year or so we would meet up and continue the conversations we had left unfinished.
Steve was a good friend, part of who I am. We had a shared life history that I treasure.
Doug Salloum
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Lorna posted a condolence
Sunday, November 24, 2019
I send my sincere condolences to Dr. Sibalis' wife and their children, his relatives and his friends. Like most, I was shocked to learn that Dr. Sibalis had recently and unexpectedly died. I am a patient of his. I was referred to Dr. Sibalis after a psychiatrist colleague of his told me that he thought that I had a case of ADHD. I appreciated the referral and the chance to be tested by Dr. Sibalis. It helped me to better understand some of my symptoms. More recently, he helped me to get on with some healthy lifestyle choices.
He helped me to see that my pride got in front of my readiness to get better. I appreciated his dependability, his ability to listen and to be a straight-shooter. I am mindful of the many patients and their families which may be feeling at a loss right now. God bless you all, Lorna
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catilden@gmail.com posted a condolence
Sunday, November 24, 2019
Dear Anne and Sam, Annabelle and Eilish,
My heart goes out to you in your time of loss and on the road ahead. I remember Stephen as kind and humble, always open to discussion about anything. In addition to all of his other many skills, I was stunned by his ability to learn languages so quickly. He will be missed by all whose lives he touched.
"And when great souls die,
after a period peace blooms,
slowly and always
irregularly. Spaces fill
with a kind of
soothing electric vibration.
Our senses, restored, never
to be the same, whisper to us.
They existed. They existed.
We can be. Be and be
better. For they existed." - Maya Angelou
With love,
Cate Tilden
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Tom West posted a condolence
Sunday, November 24, 2019
My deepest condolences to Anne, Sam, Annabel and Eilish.
I've had the privilege of being a neighbour to Stephen and Anne for over 20 years. Stephen was unfailingly friendly and polite from the moment we moved in and made us feel welcome in the neighbourhood. I've watched with admiration at the care and effort he and Anne put into maintaining their house and helping the entire neighbourhood.
I've had the joy of watching his children grow and flourish over that time, and I can only imagine it's in part a result of that same care and effort.
He will be missed by all who live here.
Tom, Michelle, Daniel and Ross
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Lorraine Sardella posted a condolence
Sunday, November 24, 2019
My heart felt condolences go out to Dr Sibalis' wife, family and friends, as well as to the many patients and families of patients whose lives he touched and impacted. My husband has been a patient of Dr. Sibalis for almost twenty-five years, and throughout the years we have all grown accustomed to and benefited from his kind, compassionate, unwavering and consistent wisdom. He seemed to be a man of few words, but had an uncanny ability to reach in and pull out insights and a certain breadth of perspective, which resulted in a deeper understanding and sensitivity towards ourselves as well as towards each other. We will forever be grateful for the tools he has provided my husband (as well as me), as we continue on this very fleeting journey of life!
Lorraine Sardella
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Joanne Hutchinson posted a condolence
Sunday, November 24, 2019
We are so sorry for the loss of a wonderfully kind man who worked hard for his family, patients, friends and community. I will miss seeing him in our neighbourhood on his way to or from work or his little jaunts to the corner store for some milk or item needed for Anne to complete their dinner. Together he and Anne have raised three amazing children, who, like their father and mother will contribute much to this world. He was a great listener and when he did speak, his words made so much sense. He had this innate ability to make you feel better with just a few words. He will be greatly missed by all. In parting here is a short poem from an anonymous author. Carl Noble and Joanne Hutchinson.
Grieve Not
Grieve not…
Nor speak of me with tears.
But laugh and talk to me
As though I were beside you.
I loved you so,
t’was heaven here
With you
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Karen Schwartz posted a condolence
Saturday, November 23, 2019
An unbelievable loss of epic proportion, I am reeling from the tragic news of Dr. Stephen Sibalis’ death. He has been my doctor, mentor, and father figure for 29 years. Over the years, he has offered me outstanding care which has literally saved my life. While he rarely spoke about himself in our sessions, when he did it was clear that he was a loving family man who adored his wife and children. I admired this about him. As I struggle to cope with my new reality, a life without his support and guidance, I feel blessed to have known him. My condolences to all who loved him, particularly his family. He will be forever missed. ~Karen Schwartz~
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Rosemary Evans posted a condolence
Saturday, November 23, 2019
Dear Anne, Annabel, Eilish and Samuel,
Our heartfelt sympathy at such a sad time. The UTS community extends our condolence to all of you.
Sincerely;
Rosemary and the UTS community
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empc@nb.sympatico.ca posted a condolence
Saturday, November 23, 2019
Steve was a colleague at University of Guelph zoology department 45y ago, he was an affable, witty and intelligent fellow grad student and I was sorry to see him move to medicine, although I'm sure that he was an excellent doctor. My condolences to his family.
Mike Chadwick
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Ms. S. Doré posted a condolence
Saturday, November 23, 2019
There are no words. My sincerest sympathies to his family. He was involved in our family's care since he was a Resident, and my personal care since 1994. He saved my life. Without his resoluteness, I may never have had the correct medication. He had always been there for us, and I admired his professionalism. His passing has been a tremendous shock, and he will be mourned for a very long time. May the LORD lift up His countenance upon you, And give you peace.
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Michael Vanner posted a condolence
Saturday, November 23, 2019
My sympathies to the family and friends of Dr. Sibalis. He was a great person and a very caring doctor.It has been a pleasure and honour to have known him.
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M. Bower posted a condolence
Saturday, November 23, 2019
Dr. Sibalis was a kind and caring man. He helped our family for over 5 years. I enjoyed discussing his radio collection with him. We both have the same Crosley Clock Radio from the 1950's! We enjoyed discussing his travels, and will miss his gentle manner and calm demeanor. Such a great loss :(
M. Bower
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Louisa Collins posted a condolence
Friday, November 22, 2019
My deepest sympathies to Dr. Sibalis’s family for their loss. Dr. Sibalis was a gracious, kind, and thoughtful doctor and man. I saw him for over 17 years and he made a huge difference in my life. I was delighted to discover that he knew Boston, most of my relatives life in the Boston area. It was wonderful to talk to someone who understood the places I was talking about and could sympathize with my terror of driving there, something we laughed about together. The world has lost a wonderful person and doctor.
Louisa Collins
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Melisa Yukseli lit a candle
Friday, November 22, 2019
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Dr. Sibalis cared for me last 5 to 7 years.
He was like a father figure for me.
He was a straight shooter and very smart. I didn't like to boxes he opened sometimes. I always had an urge to hug him. I never got to hug him, alas. He was so kind. He was never mean but very, very honest in our sessions. I made him something one time, but he didn't take it. I blow glass as an artist. I tried to make him a whiskey glass but said it was not appropriate because I was his patient. He was exactly my dad's age. I didn't have a dad properly and saw him as and did love him. He did change me for the better. I am in shock. I had an appointment with him today and saw him just lost a week. I will miss him every day. I felt we had a good connection. Dr. Stephen Sibalis, I hope to carry on your advice and hope to make you proud. You were helping me, and I feel now lost a little. I will miss you and your ways of making me understand certain things that I never thought I could fix or overcome.
He made people better and even added a joke here in there in our sessions.
My most sincere condolences. To the family and his loved ones. I will not forget him.
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Melisa Yukseli posted a condolence
Friday, November 22, 2019
Dr. Sibalis cared for me last 5 to 7 years.
He was like a father figure for me.
He was a straight shooter and very smart. I didn't like to boxes he opened sometimes. I always had an urge to hug him. I never got to hug him, alas. He was so kind. He was never mean but very, very honest in our sessions. I made him something one time, but he didn't take it. I blow glass as an artist. I tried to make him a whiskey glass but said it was not appropriate because I was his patient. He was exactly my dad's age. I didn't have a dad properly and saw him as and did love him. He did change me for the better. I am in shock. I had an appointment with him today and saw him just lost a week. I will miss him every day. I felt we had a good connection. Dr. Stephen Sibalis, I hope to carry on your advice and hope to make you proud. You were helping me, and I feel now lost a little. I will miss you and your ways of making me understand certain things that I never thought I could fix or overcome.
He made people better and even added a joke here in there in our sessions.
My most sincere condolences. To the family and his loved ones. I will not forget him.
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Janet Dickhout posted a condolence
Thursday, November 21, 2019
Our sincere condolences to the family and loved ones of Dr. Stephen Sibalis. Dr Sibalis cared for our son for over 18 years. He was a reliable, expert and trusted physician who sincerely cared about his patients, and made himself available for them and their families in times of crisis. Our son is devastated to learn of his passing, as I'm sure are all his many patients. We truly value and are grateful for all his years of care.
Dr. Janet and Mr. Roger Dickhout
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