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Bronte Oldham lit a candle
Sunday, September 8, 2013
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Dave just recently entered my life, and although I haven't known him for long, he has become a very important person in my life. I want to start off first by saying one of my favourite qualities in Dave was his honesty. He would always speak his mind and would have no shame no matter how it sounded, bad or good. When I heard of Dave's passing one of the first things that popped into my head was that I needed to write something for his funeral, I truly feel inside that it was a sign from Dave, and he would of wanted me to say something here today.
My name being Bronte, Dave and I had a lot of conversations about the Bronte sisters and other old time authors. Dave knew about my love for Marilyn Monroe, and unlike others who would say oh yeah, she was really pretty and moved on. Dave was very interested, he would tell me stuff he knew about her, asked me if he could borrow my movies of her, and we talked about other Old Hollywood Starlet's and films. I've never met someone in real life who was interested in the Classics and this memory is one of the most special to me.
I know Dave had no children, and I feel like I filled that gap in his life. When ever I came to see him his eyes would light up, and when I wasn't there and just my Dad went to visit him Dave would always ask about me and where I was. I could feel how happy he was to see me, and to me that made me feel like I accomplished something, being able to make someone forget their troubles for a little while.
In May I started my first job at the Apple Factory and I remember every time my dad and I would go to visit Dave in the hospital he would ask me to bring him some peanut brittle, apple cider, and once even colie flower, I found that hilarious. Now every time I see Apple Cider, Peanut Brittle, or collie flower I think of Dave and how much he enjoyed it. And he always shared, always offered us some. He was always so excited when we brought him things.
What was so different about Dave, than any other adult I've met in my life is that Dave didn't look down upon me as a child, or someone younger than him. I feel like he saw potential in me, really believed in my dreams, and took interest in what I had to say. I really appreciated that. He treated me equal.
One night Dave asked my Dad and I to get a new phone for him, and so off me and my Dad went and we picked out the Galaxy S 2. Dave decided he wanted to stick to his iPhone and gave the phone to me. My phone has true meaning to me now, and I will always think of Dave when I am using it. His e-mail still shows up on my phone, and it makes me smile every time.
My Dad told me about a week and a half ago that Dave wanted to teach me how to invest my money and I could become as successful as him one day. I was so excited to learn and spend time with him, especially since I haven't seen him for a while and to learn something not many people my age were even thinking of. Now, it's a goal of mine to learn how to invest for Dave.
Dave loved Daphne du Maurier , an English author and playwright. There's one quote of her's that sticks out to me a lot. "If only there could be an invention that bottled up a memory, like scent. And it never faded, and it never got stale. And then, when one wanted it, the bottle could be uncorked, and it would be like living the moment all over again." I would do that with all of our memories. I will miss him every day dearly, and think of all the great times we had. I will remember his beautiful soul, smile, humour etc. I will remember how he was willing to help me in so many ways, and now when I achieve those things and have those important events happen I know Dave will be right there with me. I love you so much, rest in paradise. I'll see you one day and we will start off right where we left off. Do you think I could use those extender claws you gave me to reach you in heaven?
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Bronte Oldham posted a condolence
Saturday, September 15, 2012
Dave just recently entered my life, and although I haven’t known him for long, he has become a very important person in my life. I want to start off first by saying one of my favourite qualities in Dave was his honesty. He would always speak his mind and would have no shame no matter how it sounded, bad or good. When I heard of Dave’s passing one of the first things that popped into my head was that I needed to write something for his funeral, I truly feel inside that it was a sign from Dave, and he would of wanted me to say something here today. My name being Bronte, Dave and I had a lot of conversations about the Bronte sisters and other old time authors. Dave knew about my love for Marilyn Monroe, and unlike others who would say oh yeah, she was really pretty and moved on. Dave was very interested, he would tell me stuff he knew about her, asked me if he could borrow my movies of her, and we talked about other Old Hollywood Starlet’s and films. I’ve never met someone in real life who was interested in the Classics and this memory is one of the most special to me. I know Dave had no children, and I feel like I filled that gap in his life. Whenever I would visit him his eyes would light up, and when I wasn’t there and just my Dad went to visit him, Dave would always ask about me and where I was. I could feel how happy he was to see me, and to me that made me feel like I accomplished something, being able to make someone forget their troubles for a little while. In May I started my first job at the Apple Factory and I remember every time my dad and I would go to visit Dave in the hospital he would ask me to bring him some peanut brittle, apple cider, and once even cauliflower, I found that pretty funny. Now every time I see Apple Cider, Peanut Brittle, or cauliflower I think of Dave and how much he enjoyed it. And he always shared, always offered us some. He was always so excited when we brought him things. What was so different about Dave, than any other adult I’ve met in my life is that Dave didn’t look down upon me as a child, or someone younger than him. I feel like he saw potential in me, really believed in my dreams, and took interest in what I had to say. I really appreciated that. He treated me equal. One night Dave asked my Dad and I to get a new phone for him, and so off me and my Dad went and we picked out the Galaxy S 2. Dave decided he wanted to stick to his iPhone and gave the phone to me. My phone has true meaning to me now, and I will always think of Dave when I am using it. His e-mail still shows up on my phone, and it makes me smile every time. My Dad told me that Dave wanted to teach me how to invest some of my savings and I could become as successful as him one day. I was so excited to learn and spend time with him, especially since I haven’t seen him for a while and to learn something not many people my age were even thinking of. Now, it’s a goal of mine to learn how to invest for Dave. Dave loved Daphne du Maurier , an English author and playwright. There’s one quote of her’s that sticks out to me a lot. “If only there could be an invention that bottled up a memory, like scent. And it never faded, and it never got stale. And then, when one wanted it, the bottle could be uncorked, and it would be like living the moment all over again.” I would do that with all of our memories. I will miss him every day dearly, and think of all the great times we had. I will remember his beautiful soul, smile, and humour. I will remember how he was willing to help me in so many ways, and now when I achieve those things and have those important events happen I know Dave will be right there with me. I love you so much, rest in paradise. I’ll see you one day and we will start off right where we left off. Do you think I could use those extender claws you gave me to reach you in heaven? Love Bronte
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Dal & Delia Mangat posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 11, 2012
We will miss you Dave especially that amazing smile.Our sincere condolences to all your friends and family.
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Maureen "Edge" Edgecombe posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 11, 2012
It was an honour and a privilege to know such a wonderful person. David, you are and will continue to be missed by many, many people. Sorry I didn't get a chance to deliver the pickled walnuts and this year's version of Chili Sauce! Love you forever.
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Bob McCart & Grace Cordi posted a condolence
Monday, September 10, 2012
Our condolences to Sandy et all. We'll always remember what goodness you brought to our lives.
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Karen and Jim Miller posted a condolence
Monday, September 10, 2012
Saddened to hear of David's sudden passing, though we had only spoken on the phone and exchanged emails the past few years, both here in from our repective Florida homes, Karen and I share fond memories of past visits with David and Sandy. We will miss the future tentatively planned get together, along with The Finlay's near our summer homes north of the city.
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Tim S. posted a condolence
Saturday, September 8, 2012
A good friend that will be missed by many, but not soon forgotten.
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Tim S. posted a condolence
Saturday, September 8, 2012
A good friend that will be missed by many, but not soon forgotten.
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Chris, Trish, and the Blair Family posted a condolence
Friday, September 7, 2012
David I will miss our morning conversations at the kitchen table dearly. You meant a great deal to myself and my family and will be greatly missed. Take care until we meet again.
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The Little Family posted a condolence
Friday, September 7, 2012
Good Bye Dear Friend. We are all deeply saddened and will all miss you dearly. We will miss your bright smile and lively conversation here with your friends at Lucy's. While we feel empty and sad we will always cherish the memories you gave us.
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Samantha Golden posted a condolence
Thursday, September 6, 2012
David was a very kind,giving and gentle man. He will be deeply missed. He was always such a good person to talk to.....Sail on David
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Tiffany & Chris Chinn & Family lit a candle
Wednesday, September 5, 2012
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We are deeply saddened by the loss of our friend. Our condolences to all who were a part of David's life, his keen wit and sense of humour will be sorely missed. Hope you you will always have the sun on your face, and the wind at your back forever more my friend! Sail on, sail on, Sailor!
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Cathy, John & Tylyr lit a candle
Wednesday, September 5, 2012
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You will be dearly missed David. Hope you will be watching Hennessy Dave from Above!
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Glenda Fraser posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 5, 2012
With deepest sympathy from the Fraser family. Glenda, Derek, Stephanie,Brandon,Justin and his long lost friend "The Baron"
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Faye Fergusson posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 5, 2012
My condolences to Sandy and all friends of David. I shall miss him every day. He was consistently a bright light in my life, a good friend and his counsel and faith in me will be forever missed.
