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Cynthia Bennett posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 5, 2010
Autumn greetings, Mrs. McDerment, in all its colourful splendour and majesty! (Kingsett Point will be brilliant about this time.) Here's trusting God's renewed purpose for you is becoming more clearly visible, enabling you to go forward and contribute your gifts to the lives of your children and grandchildren. God is infinite Life, Truth and Love. "All is well." Cynthia Bennett
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Mrs. Cynthia Bennett posted a condolence
Friday, September 17, 2010
Dear Claire and Family Members: Briefly, I would like to add to yesterday's message that, with dignity and grace, all our lives need to be carved out like works of art; and, what I learned from the Service of Thanksgiving is that his was exactly and exceptionally that. With gratitude, Cynthia Bennett.
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Mrs. Cynthia Bennett posted a condolence
Thursday, September 16, 2010
I felt honoured to be a part of the Service of Thanksgiving For the Meaningful Life of Robert M. McDerment. The music and speakers provided a poignant, moving, sometimes subtley-humorous, ever-so-tasteful Memorial. Each of Mrs. and Mr. McDerment's four offspring spoke exceedingly well under the duress of the circumstances. Particularly memorable for me will be the reading of Canon Henry Scott-Holland's poem, "Life Means All It Ever Meant." Thank you, Martha, for having shared your profound understanding of it. Equally etched in thought will be the tolling of the church bell as it bore through my soul on leaving Grace Church On The Hill. Cynthia Bennett
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Jane Cook posted a condolence
Friday, September 10, 2010
Dear Claire: Although we've been in touch a couple of times by 'phone, I just wanted you to know how deeply moved I was by the beautiful memorial service for Bob yesterday. I like to imagine that he was looking in on it from his spot beyond, feeling immensely proud of you and his children. Being the modest man that he was, he'd undoubtedly be amazed at the tributes to what a profound effect his life works and ways have had on so many. Back in the days when my life was in Toronto, I remember that Bob drew up my first will, explaining everything so patiently. I remember some great couple times at cottages and elsewhere, full of earnest discussions, some rather hillarious golf, and simply lovely comradarie. More recently, our Stratford/Maple Grove outings have been very dear to my heart. I so enjoyed walks on the beach with Bob, who so obviously enjoyed the out-of-doors, not to mention our little rants on such subjects as "the rule of law". This last while has been a difficult but obviously very intimate journey for your whole family. It was an honour to be present yesterday. My thoughts are with you and the children and grandchildren in the days ahead. With much love, Jane
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Peter Cho posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 8, 2010
Dear Mrs. Claire McDerment and Family: On behalf of Bob’s friends at Volkswagen Group Canada, please accept our condolences on his passing. We were indeed blessed and honoured to have Bob as our external legal advisor for the past several decades. As a long-time and loyal advocate, Bob always had our best interest at heart (as evidenced by his attendance at our 5am board conference calls with Germany!). We will miss his sage advice but will never forget his integrity, humility, gentleness, and thoughtfulness. Sincerely, Peter Cho
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Mary O'Fynn posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 8, 2010
Dear Clair, Our heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. Many wonderful memories of you and Bob and also of our mothers. Love Mary & John O’Fynn
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Paul, Cynthia, Marina and Peter BENNETT posted a condolence
Thursday, September 2, 2010
Dear Claire and Family, It is with deep distress and compassionate support that we wish for you ALL to find COMFORT in the caring concern of those around you; and that, in time, FOND MEMORIES of ROBERT'S LIFE WITH YOU will HEAL your present sadness by TRANSFORMING it into BUOYANT MOMENTS of his ETERNAL SPIRITUAL PRESENCE that will CARRY you through the rest of your lives. We also deeply regret any pain Robert had to endure, including the emotional loss of you all. YOUR suffering, too, throughout the lengthy process, is in our thoughts and tranquil prayers. With greatest sorrow, Cynthia, Paul, Marina and Peter.
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Cynthia (MacNames) Bennett posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
To Claire: "You cannot see or touch me But I'm standing next to you, Your tears can only hurt me, Your sadness makes me blue. Be brave and show a smiling face, Let not your grief show through, I love you from a different place Yet I'm standing next to you." Unknown author While passing your cottage by boat, I mentally had to lower the flag on your dock to half-mast. The way it was just didn't seem right, and I wanted to attribute an infinite amount of dignity and respect to your dear Robert. I was up at Evelyn's for two weeks with Paul and our two, Marina & Peter, from August 14th to the 28th; and it seemed sadly quiet by day and dark at night over at your place on the Joe River. Our thoughts and silent prayers were with you and your children, as well as with their children. The weather was far from spectacular this year. Between Illawara, my grandfather, Nelson Byron Gerry's summer house, and The Bennett's cottage, I have been up for 42 summers. I suspect Muskoka must be as beloved by you as it has always been by me, and was, undoubtedly, by your husband. May memories of your beloved Robert bring peace to your heart, Mrs. McDerment. With sincere sadness, Cynthia Bennett.
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Michael Webb posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
To the family of Bob Mcderment: Just to say I share your sorrow and loss.Bob was a friend, and Bob was a gentleman always. The size of his heart and compassion for others were refected in the vountary acts of kindness and charity he exhibited. He will be missed. Sincerely, Michael Webb
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David and Dianne Matheson posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
Dear Martha and family, In Sympathy, Tenderly may time heal your sorrow, Gently may friends ease your pain, Softly may peace replace heartache And may warmest memories remain. Love and prayers to you and your family, David and Dianne Matheson, and family.
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Clive and Barbara Warrilow . Tucson , Arizona . posted a condolence
Saturday, August 28, 2010
Dear Claire and Family , As you may recall , Bob and I first met early 1989 , when as " the new boy " at Volkswagen Canada I needed so much help adapting to Canada both for business and our personal affairs . Bob was one of those rare people who you instantly like and trust , and over the ensuing years we came to greatly value the professional help and treasure the friendship . Please know out thoughts and Prayers are with you at this time . Rest in Peace Dear Friend .
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Joe Folz posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 25, 2010
I was fortunate enough to have worked with Bob for many years during my legal career with Volkswagen. For reasons best known to Bob, he took me under his wing and exhibited the greatest patience and caring as we worked together. I last saw Bob in 2008 when, to my great pleasure and awe, he surprised and honored me with his presence at my party when leaving Volkswagen. This was just one small example of the thoughtfulness and caring that Bob always exhibited. Bob's wisdom made me a better lawyer and his demeanor made me a better person. My sincere condolences to Bob's family and colleagues upon this loss of a great human being.
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Joe D\ posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Dear Claire, I was very saddened to hear about Bob's passing. I extend my deepest condolences to you and your family. I got to know Bob well over the last 20 years, and will always remember him as a man of integrity, a true gentleman and a loyal friend. He is greatly missed. My thoughts are with you.
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Colin Gour posted a condolence
Monday, August 23, 2010
It was my pleasure and privilege to have worked with Bob for many years while with VWC in Toronto. Bob was our external lawyer and as such, an invaluable and essential legal resource for the company. What I always appreciated and will never forget is the professionalism and class Bob brought to the all of our dealing together. It was completely in keeping with the character of our company at the time and as such, was a perfect fit. Frankly, he was unlike any other lawyer I had (and have) known.....quiet, dignified, very knowledgeable and able to see and understand the larger context of our efforts. Bob was a great resource and help to me. I will always value our professional relationship. Last....I will never forget the good times we shared while on business trips to Germany etc. Who knew that quiet, dignified Bob was an excellent dancer who put the rest of us to shame!! Great memories never to be forgotten! Rest in Peace, Bob.
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Marni Whitaker posted a condolence
Monday, August 23, 2010
Dear Claire and family, I was very sorry to hear of Bob's death. I remember how kind he was to me when I first joined Lang Michener 26 years ago. He was the first person to take me to lunch and he was always fair and reasonable in all the matters we worked on together over the years. Please accept my condolences. Best regards, Marni Whitaker
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Belinda Kirkwood posted a condolence
Monday, August 23, 2010
Claire, Martin and I were very sorry to hear of Bob's struggle and your loss. It is such a difficult time. We remember Bob fondly, his elegance, his compassion and his dancing skills with you bring a smile to my face, as Martin and I could never approach the grace that the two of you had. He never just walked the halls of Lang Michener, he just glided. Unfortunately Martin and I will not be able to come to the service as it is Rosh Hashanah with synagogue and family commitments. However, we wish you and your family the best. Belinda Kirkwood and Martin Rabinovitch
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Rosemary Corbett posted a condolence
Sunday, August 22, 2010
Dear Claire, Mary, Martha and Rob, I write in sorrow on learning of the death of your husband and father. His loss must still seem incomprehensible to you all. Having recently had a friend die of pancreatic cancer, I know how harrowing that journey can be. Regrettably, I will be out of the country on September 9; however, my thoughts will be with you in your sorrow on that day, and my hope is that your cherished memories may in time blunt the sharp edges of your grief. Warm regards, Rosemary Corbett
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Sandra Munn posted a condolence
Sunday, August 22, 2010
Dear Claire and family, Norm and I were deeply saddened to learn of the death of your beloved husband and father, Bob. This must have been an unspeakably horrible time for all of you. I know what a sensitive and supportive family you are and Bob must have been so grateful for all your kindnesses to him. Bob was always such a success in business and a loving, devoted family man. I did not know that he started a camp for children with learning disabilities. We are so sorry that we are unable to attend the memorial service at Grace Church because we shall be out of the country at that time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this challenging time. Love, Sandra and Norman Munn
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Sharon Irvine and Mark Grummett posted a condolence
Sunday, August 22, 2010
Dear Claire and family, We are thinking of you and so sorry for your loss. We will miss our friendly visits with Bob on the street and in the driveway. Kindest regards, Sharon Irvine and Mark Grummett
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Don and Diane Woods posted a condolence
Saturday, August 21, 2010
Dear Claire and family. We are sorry to hear of your loss. Bob and you have done so much for our Sc'57 group. We'll miss him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Sincerely, Don and Diane Woods, Sc' 57
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Pat Campbell posted a condolence
Saturday, August 21, 2010
Dear Claire and family, I read this morning of Bob's death. You all will have supported him in the sad journey, but now be ready to construct the many happy memories to take forward with you. My thoughts and prayers are with you all now, at this time which seems to stand still. Fondly, Pat Campbell, old book club member
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Ray and Helen Hutchings posted a condolence
Saturday, August 21, 2010
To Claire McDerment and family: Helen and I were deeply saddened to read of Bob's passing in this morning's paper. Our friendship goes back many years to the town of Port Hope and growing up next door to his family. Parents Sally and "the doctor" are fondly remembered for their friendship and guidance in those early years. On behalf of Helen and my sister Nancy Peters, we extend our deepest sympathy to you Claire and your family, also to Mary Payne. Sincerely, Ray Hutchings
